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8 months ago
Salam... Lama sudah menyepi. Hari ini terpanggil untuk membersih sawang sawang di kamar ini. Si botak terlalu kusyuk mendengar jerit jerit kecil di ruang fikirnya. Hingga hanyut. Mujur tak lemas.
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Tiga hari lepas, si botak dianugerahi satu peluang yang menyebabkan jemari ini mengetuk papan kekunci kotak ajaib. Si botak tak mahu bercerita panjang mengenainya lagi. Namun, pengalaman tiga hari di sana membuat si botak tersedar dari lena yang panjang.
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Ini satu perkara yang si botak nak kongsi. Kita akan terus jadi mangsa sehingga kita cuba lihatnya peristiwa itu dengan penuh tanggungjawab. Kita juga menyumbang kepada apa apa peristiwa yang kita alami. Namun tak bermakna ketidakadilan itu, tak terjadi.
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"Saya tak dibayar gaji" - Kenapa tak saya laporkan kepada pihak yang mampu menolong? Bukan mengadu tetapi menuntut hak!
"Saya didera suami" - Kenapa tak tinggalkan dia? "Saya tak nak anak anak tak berbapa" - Habis mahu biarkan mereka hilang ibu dan bapa, kerana mereka akan terpinggir bila kita sentiasa bertengkar dan cuba memujuk hati.
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Ini sekadar apa yang si botak belajar. Masing masing punya cara tersendiri. Saja tulis agar tercetus satu perbincangan yang memberi untung kepada semua. :)
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Salam... It has been so long in silence. Am called today to do the spring cleaning. Si botak was too indulged in hearing the tiny shouts within his thinking compound. Drifted. Fortunately was not drowning.
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Three days ago, si botak was blessed with an opportunity that lead his fingers tapping this magic box. Si botak does not want to talk more about it. Still, three days there had awoken si botak from a very long sleep.
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Si botak likes to share something. We will continue be a victim until we try to look at the incident in a responsibled manner. We also contributed to the event that we have been through. Still, it does not mean that the injustice was not there.
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"I was not paid" - Why did not we report it to those who could help? Not telling yet fight for own rights!
"I was abused by my husband" - Why did not leave him? "I do not want my child to bw without father" - Then let the kids loose both parent, as they will be left through the arguing and while we try to find solice.
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This is just what si botak have learned. Each and every person has own ways. Simply writing this as to spark a discussion that might bring good to everybody. :)
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Salam Moeha,
I don't know much but perhaps there were some undefined reasons why they act like that. For example; I couldn't report why I'm not getting paid because I skipped works. or my abused husband still give me support and I'm jobless and no where to go.
Maybe,some people need something that tick their heart and mind in order to move forward or so. : )
Salam Moeha,
I hope your are fine :)
I am sure in life, there are many things that we regretted for not doing. For start, not many people has the guts to confront when their were mistreated. Of course, there are a lot consequences to be counted before we confront anyone, but I believe, we do must not avoid confrontation in certain condition. Such condition is like when your employer does not paying your salary :)
salam bro..semoga sihat ya...umm itu la kaedahnya..kekadang kita ni reluctant tidak bertempat..ummm
salam seaweed,
yup.. those undefined reasons that most probably held us from moving on. :)
salam haaziq,
then we must not put the blame entirely on our employer as we've chosen to avoid the confrontation... hehehe.. this article is just to make us think through the responsible ways so that we wont be a victim for the rest of our life... :)
salam arsaili,
apa khabar org jauh? :) reluctant takpe lagi... tapi dok cari alasan yang finally will make us even sadder... :)